Ren's finding ad

Orphanages in China are required to run a provincial newspaper advertisement for children that are found and brought to their orphanage. They are called "Finding Ads." These ads contain information about where and when the children were found and which orphanage is caring for them. They include a photograph of the child as well. These photographs are usually the earliest available pictures of the children.

We received Ren's finding ad today from a fellow in the States who locates them for a small fee. It was published in the "Yangcheng Evening News" on May 18, 2007. We're not sure exactly how old Ren is in the photo but he can't be more than 6 months old - our earliest photo of Ren so far!

Our family is complete!

Er, thanks to Photoshop ...

Paul couldn't resist photoshopping Ren into our latest family pic:

A new (old) photo of Ren!

We received the most amazing gift today: another picture of Ren! It was taken before his referral pictures - when he still had hair! - back in March of this year.

As soon as we received Ren's proposal, we joined a yahoo group dedicated to families who have adopted or are adopting from his orphanage. Families often receive or take photos of their children with other kids at the orphanage and I hoped we would be able to get more pictures of Ren that way. Well, today we did! A family who adopted their daughter in March contacted me to say they had a photo of their daughter with Ren!

Check out our cutie! (By the way, I've obscured their beautiful daughter's face to protect her privacy.)

How long until we have our Letter Seeking Confirmation?

Today is day 24 since we sent in our Letter of Intent to adopt Ren. It's hard to say how long it will be before we receive the Chinese government's Letter Seeking Confirmation (that we still want to adopt Ren) but it could be anywhere between 3 and 6 months. So far, the wait has been easy but I think that's because it's not even conceivable that we'd receive the LSC yet. When our wait gets to the 2 1/2 mark, I'm sure impatience will begin to creep in.

Here's a little family pic from last weekend. I'm used to seeing just the three of us in pictures but now it's weird - where's our other kid?! Oh yeah, in China!

A baby book of sorts

You can probably tell that I'm a fairly frequent blogger. I like it. It's quick, it makes me feel connected to our little guy on the other side of the world, and it keeps family and friends up to date on the adoption. But most of all, I do it for Ren. As with Claire's blog, I intend to turn Ren's blog into books for him. I used to do traditional scrapbooking but I just haven't been able to find the time to get out all my tools, get the photos printed, crop them, choose pretty papers, etc. This is a much faster way for me to capture our thoughts and memories leading up to meeting him and his life with us for the first year or two.

Very shortly after I ceased posting to e-Claire, I "slurped" it using a company called Blurb. Basically, the free software from that company just takes all your text and pictures and drops it into a book which you can then play with until you're happy with the format of your text and pictures. I now have two hardcover volumes of e-Claire for our little girl - at about $60 a piece - and an additional copy of each volume for Paul and me.

I still haven't begun Claire's lifebook (either the toddler or the older child version) because I'm waiting for her history report from China Babies. Once I finally begin, I think I'll probably do those books electronically too.

I hope Claire and Ren enjoy perusing their books when they're older. At the very least, I think they'll be able to tell how much we treasure each and every moment with them!

This, that, and oh yeah, the shopping!

The day after we accepted Ren's proposal, I headed over to a nice little kids' shop in our neighbourhood and splurged on some items I had been eyeing up. I love the dragon fabric on the long-sleeved shirt. Since I'm a tiger in the Chinese zodiac, I had to get the green t-shirt with the tiger for my boy.

Last week, Paul, Claire and I had another great shopping adventure. I had been looking everywhere for toddler boys' shorts on sale (in case it's hot in Ren's home province when we get there) but I was having no luck at all. That is, until my friend Rae reminded me of the Children's Place outlet here in town. Jackpot! Great cargo-style shorts were on sale for $1.99 each! Isn't that insane? For that price, I decided to get four pairs in different colours in size 24 months and the same selection in size 18-24 months just in case he's on the leaner side. Usually Claire and I do most of the shopping on our own so it was really fun to have Paul there, helping to pick out his son's clothes.

In other shopping news, I now have all the items for Ren's care package ready, except for the disposable camera. Our coordinator will carry over our package to China in late November so I still have a little bit of time to get it ready. Claire and I picked out most of the items together - it was a lot of fun! I'll post a pic of the items soon.

On the topic of Claire, she is finally calling her little brother by the name Ren. It switched over from James to Ren on Thanksgiving weekend. I was actually starting to worry; what if she always called him James? Would we have to consider including that name in his string of names?

I'm still hoping every day when I open my email that I'll find an update on Ren there from our coordinator. Some families in the Waiting Child program get updated photos and even measurements just days after they send in their Letter of Intent. We sent ours in 2 weeks ago so I think if an update is coming, we could receive it anyday. We're dying to see his sweet little face in new pics!

Ren's jie jie (big sister) awaits his arrival