Wednesday, February 25, 2009

A low-key day

It's Thursday afternoon and I thought it was time for another update.

Yesterday we had just a bit of paperwork to do in the afternoon which meant the rest of the day was free time - yahoo! We did a quick run to a great department store called GrandBuy for shoes for Ren because I thought all the ones I brought from home were a size too big. Once there, though, the ladies (you get swarmed by sales people wanting to help!) convinced me that he needed a bigger size. Sure enough when I compared sizes back at our hotel, I bought the exact same size we already had! Oh well, I know a girl can never have enough shoes. Maybe it's the same for a boy?

In the afternoon, we mostly just hang out in our hotel room. We had a dance party to Cantonese music and played with Kindermusik instruments we brought from home. That really got Ren going. All of us but Ren kept switching instruments but not him; he held on to his first chosen instrument the whole time. We've noticed that he does that with most toys and even food. Another game that we play again and again is the game where you sneak up on the other and then say "Boo" or "Peekaboo". He loves that! He and Claire also love just running back and forth to the door and the bed. When they lean hard against the door, it bangs, which prompted Claire at one point to put her finger to her lips and make the shushing sound. Sure enough, he copied her. He is going to learn a lot from his big sister!
I love kids in their jammies!
So that was yesterday. This morning was not as fun. We woke up around 6 a.m. to find Ren sick and we quickly realized it was in relation to his medical condition. To protect his privacy (I guess that seems ironic because we have a blog about him), we are not sharing his medical condition with many people so I won't go into that here, but suffice it to say that we thought his illness this morning and related things we've observed in the last couple of days were serious enough to warrant a visit to the doctor this morning.

We were able to see an international doctor first thing, and we got him some medicine. Hopefully it works. We're already seeing some improvement. We also learned that Ren's last surgery (done in August of 2007) was not done very well at all either functionally or cosmetically (in this doctor's opinion) and that it will likely have to be redone in Canada. It was very reassuring to see the doctor here, since it'll be two weeks or so until we see our own back in Canada. I am very much looking forward to all those appointments so that we can understand the full extent of Ren's condition and get him the medical attention he needs. It's hard to know if his condition is very mild - as we were told - or more serious because we don't have a lot of information about his history and of course, very little in the way of personal experience with him.

Anyway, today has been pretty low-key due to Ren not feeling very well. We were supposed to go sight-seeing today but unfortunately for our travel mates, the tour was postponed until tomorrow morning. In the afternoon, we will check out of our hotel and go to the airport to wait for our 6 p.m. flight to Beijing. We're really looking forward to seeing Beijing again, not only for the city itself but because of our fond memories there with Claire.

11 comments:

J-P Lesperance said...

I'm thinking about you guys and hoping that everything goes well.
Hope that Ren is doing better and you can enjoy Beijing as a family.
See you soon.

Kath said...

I love the picture of the kids in the jammies. Sounds like they are getting along well.

Sorry to hear that Ren isn't feeling well. Glad you were able to find an international doctor to see him and that he is on the mend now. Hopefully his condition is relatively minor as was suggested to you.

We hope the rest of your trip goes well. We're thinking of you.

Rae said...

Poor little guy. Give Ren a get well hug from us, I hope he's feeling better soon so you can enjoy the rest of your time in China. I'm relieved to hear you were able to get him to a doctor, hopefully that eased your worry a little.

The jammie photo is so cute. Now we can see the size difference between Claire and Ren -- I think he will grow up to be the protector of his big sister!

Lia Wei and Adina said...

sounds great to have some "family days" - mixed in with the other excitement. You know if we can do anything here to change/move up appointment dates - be more than happy to make a phone call.
Jen

Paige said...

I hope Ren feels better quickly so you can enjoy Beijing together! The kids look so happy together and seemed to have connected the way siblings do. Thinking of you all!

Waitingfaithfully said...

Monica,

Sorry to hear that Ren had a tough day, I hope that this finds him doing better. Love the pictures! I can't get over that great big grin that Ren was saving until he met his family! So good to see he and Claire together! Praying for smooth travels to Beijing.

Thanks for updating us!

Bessings from Texas~

Tina

Gigglestuff said...

I am glad to hear you got to see an international doctor about Ren not feeling so good. Will pray he gets better with the medicine.

I am still so thrilled to see his gigantic grin. He is so adorable when he smiles!! And so great Claire has such a great playmate.

Hug, from Auntie Marlene & Uncle Geoff

Jednet said...

Hope he's feeling better. He seems like such a happy little guy. Hopefully any appointments can be bumped up once you get home and you'll have answers sooner rather than later.

Hang in there.

Dawn

Martigan said...

Great to see those smiles. Family time in the hotel room - my favorite memories of China. Take care of each other. Your are in our prayers.

Cecile

Shea said...

You're in my thoughts. I hope Ren is feeling better now.

I adore the pictures of your 2 kids playing together. 2 kids Monica and Paul, can you believe it?! Ren has a wonderful smile, and I can only imagine the fun he's having with his "big" sis.

Beth said...

Sorry to hear about Ren's troubles, but it sounds like he's on the mend. I too would have no problem making a call, just let me know.
Those two look so natural together and his smile is a mile wide! I'm sure he'll be watching out for her too!
Jammies are the best, and we'd know..... we're wearing our princess ones 24/7 these days:) UGH.
Happy flying and good times in Beijing:)